Simple Ways to Nourish Yourself with Nature's Magic


Escaping Suburbia, Moving to Paradise, and Finding Home

My neighbours used to call the police on me. A lot.

For me, suburbia was like living in a fish bowl, someone was always watching, and I was not cut out for the rules of suburbia.

Our police officers were a nice bunch of guys, and they arrived at my door every time someone noticed me colouring outside the lines. It got to the point where they would begin by apologizing, but they had rules too, and needed to investigate every report.

For example; The fire pit I dug in my back yard to use as an outdoor kiln for firing ceramics was, by design, perfectly safe. There’s no law against building a kids treehouse out of reclaimed wood from a demolished gas station either. Outdoor gatherings of spiritually minded women with candles and tarot cards? Also allowed.

But there is a long list of activities that are suburban no no’s. You may not let leaves stay where they fall to feed the earth and trees. Even supervised, your dog may not be off leash, unless your yard is fenced in. Gardens are meant to be well tended flower beds, not riotous vegetation. “Is she growing weeds on purpose?”. Do not let your grass grow long enough to go to seed. Seeds come from the store!

I was never arrested or fined because being “odd” may be unsettling for some people but it’s not against the law. However, when you’re a creative nature-loving free spirit, suburbia sure can feel like jail.

By the time my kids were old enough to strike out on their own, I felt crushed by my surroundings. My marriage was breaking down, the art galleries that supported my thriving art career were closing and I was still recovering from the death of my mother.

It was the perfect time for a jail break.

 

Running Towards a New Life

 

Fortunately, my sister is my best friend and a kindred spirit. We had inherited our family home, so when my marriage ended we began sharing the house. Unfortunately, we were still stuck in suburbia!

So together we hatched a plan for our great escape into the kind of life we truly hankered for. When my daughter decided she was also ready for an adventure, we celebrated by selling the house.

Paradise Found

 

We purchased a century old farmhouse in the countryside. It came with a couple of acres of land and lots of outbuildings. There are 3 ponds, tons of gardening space, and even a greenhouse. Best of all; complete privacy.

I landed in paradise on a cold December day, tired and overwhelmed. When I opened the door to let the dogs in for the night, I glanced up at a sky so dark I could see every star. I stood for a moment, absorbing the profound silence and whispered my thanks as a shooting star arched overhead.

And I closed the door on my previous life.

 

 

Meant to Be

 

We were transformed by the move in surprising ways. Living immersed in nature’s vibrantly alive atmosphere has healed old wounds and blessed us in ways too numerous to count.

Happiness comes in the form of gifts from the garden, the trees, the chickens and the bees. Wildlife passes through undisturbed by our presence, leaving us in awe.

 

 

 

Living on Purpose

 

Much of our time is spent outdoors, and something magical happens when you set foot on damp soil and begin to really notice what surrounds you. Worries and mind chatter subside, and in the relative silence new ideas begin to bloom.  Nature’s energy begins seeping into your body, soothing and rejuvenating every cell.

 

 

Surprising New Pathways

 

My sister resurrected her childhood love of LEGO. This began a search for used sets that ultimately led to a thriving second hand business that allows us to explore all over our area to trade, buy or sell.

My daughter followed her dream of rescuing dogs; training them through positive reinforcement, and making their lives better. She also found the love of her life and still lives close by.

 

 

Making art has always been my mainstay, but nature inspires me to co-create with her in other ways as well. With so much natural abundance to explore, I follow my curiosity and let the trees and plants share their secrets.

Between natural dyes, medicinals, soaps, creams and scented oils, it seems I am always creating something. The growing things have been very generous and now I am finally home.

 

 

The Enchanted Journal

 

How could I keep all this wonder and joy to myself? The Enchanted Journal was born to share the myriad of ways the natural world makes you feel better, look better, and discover your own deep connection with this earth we all live on.

You don’t need to live in the countryside to let nature transform your life. You can invite it in regardless of where you live, and you can do it without nosy neighbours calling the police. The journal is a diary of the practical magic found in nature; told through writing, art, voice and video.

AND NOW YOU CAN SHOP THE ENCHANTED JOURNAL!

Discover something magical to bring ease and comfort into your body, mind and life.

 


Laura den Hertog lives in Canada’s Ottawa valley making art, writing and co-creating products with nature. 

 

 

 

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16 Responses to Escaping Suburbia, Moving to Paradise, and Finding Home

Laura, You are and always have inspired me through your art and creativity. You are such a strong and courageous woman. I always look forward to you sharing more about yourself and your not so new digs. Wishing you continued success with everything you touch. Howard Cooperman Artists Sales and Marketing

I enjoyed your escape as we all need to escape to nature. So glad you made it.

Hi Howard, Thanks so much. Life has a funny way of pushing to where we need to be!

Thanks Suzanne! The circumstances that got me here were pretty harsh, but it was worth the journey. May we all find a way to connect with nature!

Laura, What a delightful post. Sorry you had to travel along a painful path to get to your destination. You seem content now. I would love to visit you when possible next time I am in Ottawa/Montreal. Xo

Thanks Wendy, As you know, life can sometimes throw a screw in the works. I feel so fortunate that I ended up where I belong. We would love to have a visit from you!

Laura; I LOVE how you've told this story! You are such an inspiration and as I've said before. that you are a true child of the Renaissance, pushing your own boundaries as well as those others. May it always be so!!

I too did the great escape from the city to the Pocono Mountains 23 years ago. I am also home now. A happy artist on top of a mountain over looking a lake with wild life all around. Natures miracles! Good luck to you in your new life. Best wishes, Madison 🌹

Oh Barry, you are such a darling! Thank you so much for your lovely comments, I appreciate it more than you know!

Hi Madison, thanks so much! I am delighted to hear that you still feel the magic of nature after 23 years. I can't imagine ever getting tired of it. I moved here 5 years ago, I just never told the story publicly. Time has taught me that it was a truly profound change with far reaching benefits. So here's to us country folks! Cheers!

Hello Laura! Thanks to Karen, I have a beautiful painting of yours, it looks a little bit like your picture with the stream. For me, that painting represents a dreamed path towards a universe very dear to me: Nature. I would like to tell you that your post, the pictures and what you say, went directly to my heart because it reminded me how important this dream of living surrounded by Nature is for me. Thank you for sharing your beautiful personal journey. Also, the pictures are a source of peace and hope. Finally, it's very touching to read that Karen is your best friend and a source of motivation. I do miss her a lot. Take care, Laura. Hugs to all of you, including the cats, dogs, chickens, and bees!

Hi Patrizia! Thank you so much for such a wonderful response. You totally made our day. Never give up hope, one day you will find your perfect spot too. Maybe out our way!? We all enjoyed the hugs, especially the bees.

Good morning! Perfect explanation of your journey. You gave so much to your family and community. Now you have found space, lots of it, to explore your creativity. These photos do justice to your property. Ah but if people could take a peak in each door! So many treasures to absorb!! So many hats you girls wear! The chef's hat really suits you both, experimenting with abundance from your garden and your chickens! You surprise me everything I visit! You have brought the enchantment alive!

Susie my dearest friend, Thank you so much. I'm so happy that despite the added distance, we get to share our adventures, and experiments with you. It wouldn't be the same without you. ❤️❤️❤️

Lovely story Laura - I can so relate. Happy you have found home alongside nature. It looks beautiful there!

Thanks Linda, I've just come from your website, such inspired art! I see that you have found a gorgeous location too. I've been through the area you live in and it is breathtaking. No shortage of nature for you. I love that you donate part of your sales to One Tree Planted, what a wonderful thing to do. Thanks again for your lovely comment, wishing you success! Cheers, Laura


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